
I couldn't believe it: I was returning to the island infamous for the biggest parties in Thailand. I had gone at the beginning of my time in Thailand, but did not expect to be returning
My first time in Koh Phangan consisted of staying in the party area of the island, which is built up and filled with bros in tanks and impossibly thin girls in neon crop tops. But the island as a whole is not filled with this questionable lot. In fact, only a minuscule part of the island consists of these ravers.
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| nice place for some bungalows |
I had been lured down to Koh Phangan at the promise of reuniting with 3 of my study abroad friends and one of my teaching friends. Though a long journey for a 4 day weekend (about 18 hours each way involving buses, ferries, and a lot of waiting), it was worth it.
My first few days and 2 nights involved staying with my friend who now lives on the island. After a string of events, both good and bad, she ended up living on this island paradise and opening a raw foods restaurant after doing two months at a yoga school. Her lifestyle fully encompasses the go with the flow attitude, and has reassured me that everything happens for a reason. Of course, that's easy to think if life has plopped you on an idyllic island, but nonetheless, she is a true inspiration. We spent our first full day together doing yoga on the beach and exploring the island.
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| collecting urchins |
The area my friend Melody lives on is kind of yogi-center. Many yoga studios, including her school, and a beautiful beach just down the road lined with bungalows. It has a very quiet, laid-back feel, and even some healthy restaurants (I found BROWN rice...it was a big deal). Though the island is highly touristic, my friend lives far enough away from the beach that she has many Thai owned shops for the locals on the island, so even though there are a lot of Western options (that makes life so much easier), it still has the Thai feel.
On our drive around the island, Melody decided to go to Had Rin (home of the Full Moon Party), since she had yet to venture over to that part of the island. Between the music blasting from the hotel we parked next to, and the young men dressed in neon and covered in bandages from motorbike accidents, Melody realized she really was not missing anything and vowed never to go back. Not only is the area filled with party goers, but the set-up is crowded and dirty. It hardly feels island-y at all. Luckily, this is the only part of the island that has this vibe.
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| ad in Had Rin |
We ended our exploring in the northern part of the island on a quiet beach that has a sand bar out to a small, undeveloped island. Out by the island we found locals with piles of sea urchins breaking them in half and cutting out the meat, and a vast array of dead coral.
I ended my day with an hour long massage in a bungalow on the beach with a sweet Thai woman named Ann. She told me that it was her first day back at work after a week because her friend had died in a motorbike accident. She told me that 3 years before she was in a crash on the back of a bike, where the driver died and she broke her leg. She has good karma and an angel on her shoulder, because even though she walks with a limp and her left leg is bow-legged, she is still alive and mobile. Though I stay away from motos as much as I can, it is sometimes necessary to hop on the back of a friend's or a motorcycle taxi. Also, sometimes the best way to explore an area is a motor bike. Though I am cautious and make my rides as short as possible, Ann's stories reminded me how dangerous these vehicles are. Unfortunately though, cars are just too expensive for most people in Thailand and motorbikes are the only option for transportation.
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| quite a nice place to practice some yoga with Melody |
My last night in Koh Phangan involved the reunification of me with 3 of my British friends from when I studied abroad in Edinburgh. I met them when I lived in the dorms on my semester abroad and they were freshmen. Now, one of them has just finished a year abroad in Australia and him and his friends are traveling around SE Asia. Talk about everything coming full-circle! It was so incredible to see my long-lost friends and reminisce about the semester that made me realize I wanted to live abroad after I graduated from university.
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| reunited with good friends in terrible shirts |
The night with my friends was the technical full-moon, but because it was a Buddhist holiday, the party was postponed to the day after I left the island. As much as I hate on Had Rin, I encouraged my friends to go down to the full moon beach since I had never partied there and thought I should get the experience once since I will most likely never go to a full moon party in my life.
In good full-moon fashion, we decided to have a "shit shirt night," which meant that you drew names out of a hat and whoever's name you got, you bought them a shirt and they had to wear it. This was the perfect activity in Had Rin, since there are numerous outfitters selling obnoxious shirts for Full Moon Party-goers.
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| farewell, Phangan! |
Though not the real Full Moon Party, we acted as if it were: by drinking buckets (drinks served in a bucket, choose your alcohol, choose your mixer, then they add Red Bull), dancing, and going to bed in the wee hours of the morning.
It was an incredible 4 day weekend catching up with old friends and having a completely different experience on an island I had already been to. To travelers, I would highly recommend Koh Phangan, just not recommend staying in Had Rin.